Love Doesn't Ask Why

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Sometimes it takes a heartbreak to shake us awake & help us see we are worth so much more than we're settling for.

You deserve to be with a loving partner who loves, respects, values and treats you the way you want to be treated.

Do you truly believe this statement when you hear it?

Do you really think it is possible for you to attract this kind of partner?

The truth is, it is possible, but if you keep settling for less than what you deserve, you will never really know what is possible for you...


Love is very fragile Dear Friends, whether your in a Marriage or a committed Relationship.... 

It's Very Very Fragile.........

It's more than material things, it's a deep, committed, external and internal LOVE that in my opinion doesn't exist in a lot of relationshops today, no matter what kind of relationship or what that person or persons may think they have.

If you settle, there may come a day later in your life when you feel you’re missing something.

Are you prepared to battle with that? Someday, when you see couples who seem to care deeply for each other in palm-sweating, butterfly-churning ways, do you want to think, “What have I done?

I never had that…” or do you want to smile, hug your honey and say, “Love is amazing. We have that, too.” 

Never settle for being someone's other when you have the potential to be someones only.

It's best to wait for the one we want rather than take what's available. A good woman/man deserves the best and refuses to settle. This is why so many good women/men are single but ready to love.

Life's too short to waste time on the wrong person...

It’s better to be unhappy alone than unhappy with someone...

Unless it's mad, passionate, extraordinary love, it's a waste of your time...... 

 Even if you are deeply in love with someone, always have been and always will be ~ if that person can't give you that special inner love that you so desire.......



Not saying that you should FOREVER be alone ~ just saying wait for that right person to come along............remember it's not about material things, or about outer looks ~ it's about that special inner love that is so rare to find ~ BUT IT'S OUT THERE ~ I PROMISE YOU IT'S OUT THERE..........♥♥

The possibility of finding true love may be worth the risk of not finding it. 

Settling is the safe bet, whereas holding out is a gamble.

There is a reasonable chance that you won’t find true love.

But the payoff is so much bigger. For every story you hear about someone who was too picky and ended up alone and miserable.

There is another story about someone who stuck to their guns (despite harassment from friends and family) and ultimately found someone amazing who made the wait worth all they might have gone through

~ Don't Ever Just Settle ~

Respect yourself enough to walk away from a relationship that isn’t making you a better, stronger and happier person.





If we were to be stripped
Of all that we possess that belongs to this world ~ This so-called “Three-Dimensional Space"...

Our money

Our material possessions

Our qualifications

And our physical body

And to just live as bare souls

Spiritual beings


With nothing but just what lies

Deep within our core

A thought

An emotion

To use to connect with others

I think we will be able to find out

More easily and quickly

Who are those

Who are truly meant for us.......

So My Dear Friends ~ What does this all mean??????????

To me it means, as said over and over again in this section....

~ Thank you for all

The comments I have received ~




Jude 23.10.2015 22:13

This page is great Cindi. I have always settled but I have a new perspective since reading and speaking with you, thank you!

MC♥ 16.10.2015 00:26

Never settle, I agree Cynthia Jo, SO I MUST SAY IT'S YOU AND ONLY YOU.

Still looking at your website, so much to see, read and listen too. LOVE YOU♥

Willis M 27.06.2015 23:53

Cindi, I'm learning not to settle, that is one of many reasons I'm in James' Group
so I can learn to get involed for LOVE and not to settle as I always have

Margie 27.06.2015 00:06

Agreed, Never Settle, wait for Prince Charming, as you say, he's out there somewhere.

Karen 16.06.2015 01:33

Cindi, what a great page, took me two marriages but I NO LONGER SETTLE, I'm waiting for my Prince Charming. Will wait until he pops in my life. Love you♥

Edna 14.06.2015 00:40

No one should ever just settle, we all need to find our happiness with a partner that is everything we need, DESIRE and want, NEVER SETTLE!! NEVER!!!

Danny 11.06.2015 01:48

This is so true Cindi, NEVER SETTLE! Thanks for sharing.

Carlos 07.06.2015 04:54

Always my motto, DON'T SETTLE, I'm waiting for you Dear Cindi.

Love Carlos

Anna Marie 05.06.2015 20:44

Love this Page Cindi, I agree, NEVER SETTLE!

Anna Marie

Rene 05.06.2015 03:17

Cindi, look in your Guest Book, I have my comment about settling there. Thank you for your love, friendship and inspiration, Love, Rene♥

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